I ride my bike very frequently. I own two helmets. I did not buy either of them and I don't ever wear either of them. Last summer I posted a
video on Youtube that shows me riding without a helmet. Since then I have received two comments (out of five) and two thumbs up (out of two) saying I should wear a helmet. The last one assumes that I am showing off my toughness by calling me a "tough guy". A few weeks back I went on a group ride with about 40 other people. This was my first time riding with this group and I chose not to wear a helmet. Not one person introduced themselves to me or even said hi. Only three people spoke a word to me.
1. "Where's your helmet?"
2. "You should really wear a helmet."
3. "That must be nice a breezy. You should probably wear a helmet though."
When I was in college I showed up for a group ride and the people wouldn't let me ride with them because I didn't have a helmet. That's how I got my first helmet. A friend who invited me gave me his old one (helmets, like many safety things, have a only a short life).
I aquired my other helmet in a similar fashion.
This post is not about the merits of wearing helmets. I have no good reason for not wearing a helmet, I simply don't like them. Feel free to think of me as an idiot for not wearing one. Don't call me a tough guy though please, that hurts my feelings :' (
No, this post is asking the fundamental question "why are people so adimate about me wearing a helmet?" Most people, when they see a personal flaw in somebody else they keep it to themselves. What is it about helmets that is so special? I am a very stubborn person and have been known to things strictly because other people didn't want me too. So now I can never wear a helmet, even if I wanted to. Otherwise I wouldn't be such tough guy.
In thinking about this I can across a couple interesting stories about bike helmets.
One. Two.The first contians a rather graphic images and it's message is bascially "Always wear a helmet because you never know what's going to happen." But when I read I hear "Wear a helmet, that way you don't have to pay attention to your surrondings."
The second one the guys says he doesn't wear a helmet because he's too pretty. I'm tough
and pretty!